The Beyonce Factor + Blue Ivy Carter

This is not one of those obsessive posts that will consist of me proclaiming and doting over how wonderful, magnificent, epic, beautiful, amazing, sweet, terrific, outstanding, smashing, astonishing, and extraordinary Beyonce and Jay-Z’s marriage and new baby are. Also, this will not be one of those posts where I will be bashing Beyonce for “faking a pregnancy” or arguing that her and Jay-Z are affiliated with the Illuminati (a cult) with supporting evidence from a trillion different internet sources that are about as credible as the National Inquirer. This is, however, a post where I will express  how disgusted I am with how society has glorified and idolized these two individuals.

When I heard Beyonce had her baby, I navigated to my Black gossip site of choice to read the article about it because I was curious and casually interested in things like, what she named the baby, what security was implemented, etc. I did not, however, take to Twitter to express my undying love and passion for “Princess Blue”, “Baby Carter”, or cosign with the rumors that the baby’s name has something to do with the Illuminati.  I love Beyonce’s music as much as the next girl who is in her early 20s. But, the world’s obsession with Beyonce, her marriage, Jay-Z, and their baby is nothing short of sickening.

On one side, we have the Beyonce and Jay-Z Enthusiasts. You may have seen them on Facebook and Twitter. These are the people who participated in trending topics where they picked out names for Beyonce’s child like Beyonce was specifically seeking their personal input on what to name her baby. These are the same people who will get heated and defend Beyonce like she put their children through college (or put them through college), is paying their light bill, or any of their bills for that matter. These are the same people calling Beyonce and Jay-Z’s daughter “Princess Blue” or talking about this baby, whom they probably haven’t even seen a picture of, like she is their personal savior.

On the other side, you will find the people who hate Beyonce no matter what she does. These are the people on gossip sites that ranted about Beyonce not slowing down her career to have a child. These are the same people who continued to bash her relentlessly after she finally got pregnant. These are the people who claimed that Beyonce faked her pregnancy. These are the same people who claim to be so tired of Beyonce and call her an attention whore, yet they know her every move including, how many times a day she uses the bathroom, what time she got up this morning, how many stretch marks she has, what kind of weave she wears, etc. [Read more...]

Leave the Kardashians Alone

I was never a Kardashian “fan”, but I used to watch their shows up until a few months ago when they became too boring and pointless. Their “reality shows” just started appearing obviously scripted. I used to watch Keeping Up with the Kardashians, Khloe and Lamar, and Kourtney and Khloe Take Miami, Kourtney and Kim Take New York, mainly for the fashion. No one can deny that those girls have style, and they definitely look glamorous and put together most of the time.

Considering I was never really a Kardashian fan, I can understand the temptation to sign “Boycott Kim” petitions and blast them on every single gossip site. I can understand the urge to call them attention whores, phony, and desperate. It was painful and ridiculous to watch Kris Jenner suggesting that she change her last name back to Kardashian (her deceased ex-husband’s name) for branding purposes. Check out the video below if you haven’t seen it. Nevermind that she has been married to Bruce Jenner for  two decades and she would be switching from his last name to go back to her ex husband’s name. It was also irritating to see Kim crying and being extra dramatic over some diamond earrings that she could probably easily replace with a phone call. So yes, I agree that the Kardashians seem superficial, whiny, and extremely thirsty for exposure. I get it. But the way people talk about them is just disturbing. [Read more...]

RIP Mr. Jobs

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. ― Steve Jobs

I ran across this quote by Steve Jobs’ today. It can’t be more appropriate considering what I have been feeling and thinking lately. Quotes and all, this man was a genius. I don’t know why I have been so moved by his death. Obviously I didn’t know him – I just knew of  him. Regardless of that, this man was an amazing American icon and he changed technology forever.  Tech junkies like me are definitely mourning today. RIP Steve Jobs.

Does the Media Define You?

I am embarrassed to admit that I watch Basketball Wives. Yes, I know Basketball Wives is considered “trash tv”. Yes, I also know that the phrase “wife” is not or never was befitting for three-quarters of the women on the show. But no matter how much I cringe when I see grown women acting in a manner that even junior high girls should be ashamed of, I keep going back for more. Despite all the drink throwing, profanity usage, and excessive foolery these women spew in front of the camera, I can’t help but watch. Why? Because I am flabbergasted by their apathy (or blatant ignorance) for how they are perceived by other people. I couldn’t ever imagine sharing such personal moments, fighting on national television, cursing like a sailor, all while being a mother, and subsequently a role model, as most of the women on the show have at least one child.

One thing I have a problem with is when people say that, “shows like Basketball Wives make Black women look bad” or “stuff like this just gives white people something else negative to talk about regarding Black folk so don’t support it”. I could not disagree more.

In the latest episode of Basketball Wives, people of different races watched as Evelyn and Royce fought and cursed in public. I was embarrassed for them not for myself. That behavior made them look bad not me. I do not know these women, nor do I have anything in common with any of them (well..Evelyn isn’t Black) except my racial background. Do images of Black women yelling and screaming at each other over tweets and sleeping with someone’s husband  reflect me, a person who has never met or spoken to any of them? And at one point, I must admit that I thought it was. But after thinking about the situation rationally, I realize that only I define me and/or make myself look bad.

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SATC2 – Loved it or Hated it?

Before going to the movies to experience the “friendship, fashion, sex” and whatever else was on the advertisements – I heard mixed reviews. People were saying everything from it was simply a bad movie to they loved it. Before I go on about my opinion of the movie, I will say that I have not watched the show. Other than watching a couple reruns here and there, I have barely even seen the show. My opinion may be skewed from die hard SATC fans, so please keep that in mind. Ok, now that that’s out of the way, here’s my take on SATC2. Warning: the following contains movie details. If you have yet to see the movie, you have been warned!

This movie had plenty of funny parts. The whole scenario of overly sexual Samantha being in the United Arab Emirates was enough to make anyone crack a smile. Charlotte and Miranda’s heart to heart at the hotel was pretty funny too. And, I absolutely loved the scene where they had to check out of the hotel in less than an hour!

However, there were a some parts that were a little underwhelming. For example, I don’t think that there should have been such a fuss about Carrie simply kissing Aidan. Yes, she technically cheated, but wouldn’t it have been juicer if Carrie and Aidan  had actually slept together, and Big had responded with a little more than the silent treatment for a few days and a huge diamond wedding ring as her punishment? I just thought they put way to much importance on the kiss for this movie to be partially categorized as a drama.

Also, the gay wedding scene was pretty lame. It really didn’t seem relevant to the rest of the movie besides a few quotes that came up later in the movie. Plus, I was a little less than impressed with Liza Minnelli’s rendition of “Single Ladies”. I personally wasn’t entertained, but hey. To each her own.

I tweeted yesterday, that I like SATC2 better than the first movie, but after writing about it and actually thinking about it, I have to take back that statement. I cannot even think of the climax of the movie, and if it was Carrie kissing Aidan – that was one weak climax. I liked the movie, and I don’t understand some of the reviews saying that SATC2 was absolutely boring, but I can understand some people’s disappointed. 3 out of 4 main characters are married now. If the show was based on the life of 4 single women, of course the dynamic of their lives and the movies will change. Nevertheless, one thing that was fabulous as expected was the fashion. Some of the outfits had me and my bff saying “wth are they wearing?” But for the most part, the clothes were extra glamorous as usual. Overall, I give the movie a B-.